Rationalizing Sex After giving this some major thought, even people who consider themselves to be sexually liberated find that they are rationalizing sex . Even while creating and maintaining relationships, making babies, releasing tension, maintaining mental health, etc... are all estimable goals, and fantastic side results of sex , they are not what sex is for. Sex is for joy, bliss and that search for ecstasy, which in itself is a complete and worthwhile aspiration. We h...

Is romance dead or do you think it was just reincarnated into something less superficial? Something else? You know, instead of roses… we now get our oil changed, if we are lucky! Instead of Candle-Lit Dinners… they save us a seat on the couch next to them, or even better maybe one night a year we might not have to sleep in the wet spot! It isn’t really all such a bad thing to become so comfortable with your significant other, but why does it seem that the romantic side of most rela...