Rationalizing Sex After giving this some major thought, even people who consider themselves to be sexually liberated find that they are rationalizing sex . Even while creating and maintaining relationships, making babies, releasing tension, maintaining mental health, etc... are all estimable goals, and fantastic side results of sex , they are not what sex is for. Sex is for joy, bliss and that search for ecstasy, which in itself is a complete and worthwhile aspiration. We h...

Things I've Learned Being Single Food in the freezer has an expiration date for a reason. Dating Really Bites I can open a bottle of champagne by myself but all breakable objects are in extreme danger Scissors still do just magically disappear and/or just walk off You can clean up glass with a Shop-Vac in no time at all Peace alone is sometimes better than an accompanied Uproar That sometimes it's ok to have extra pieces left over after building furniture, most of t...

Tonight was a big night for my son and I. We mailed off that oh so precious and carefully planned out Christmas List to Santa, that he had been thinking about for weeks if not months now. He just turned 5, so I wrote it all out, but he insisted on putting the stamp on and carefully dropping it down the mailbox that he could barely reach. All this got me to thinking about the last time I wrote out a Christmas list and for the life of me I can’t remember so I thought what the hell. It’s my ...

After my brief on and off flings with various Linux email solutions and a few one night stands with Domino for some quick cash, I’m going back to my quirky, comfortable and old time EX: That’s Right, I’m going back to Exchange! Well I should correct myself, I’m not going back, the company I work for is going back, but I fully support it! Small, Medium and Large Businesses seem to be moving back to Microsoft as a trusted source of there technical needs and all I can say is…. It’s abo...

Dating has never been my biggest strength. I go on plenty of dates, try a few on for size and always seem to find that they don’t have enough. It's so hard to know the difference between having unreasonable expectations and having perfectly reasonable ones that aren't being met because the guy is wrong for you. I think at my core, I know when it's not enough. I once dated a guy who lived in the city, loved going to the farmers market, hang out at the park next to Ghirardelli, people watch a...